First and foremost, family and friend is the one we depends on more. For me, when we were in such a desperate way, we usually find out our family first to help Why?? Maybe because we were their blood relatives. So, it is difficult for them to put us away when we have such a problem. As me, when I have problem I will find my family first. I feel easy to talk when them rather than with friends. Friends usually be a place for me to laugh and have a joy. Not to cry together and have a sadness together. I can take responsible when my friends need me to talk to and maybe to share their problem with me. Since primary school, I always be a counselor to my friends. But, I hate to share my problems with them. It is not that I arrogant, it just, I think they also have a problem. I don’t want to messy their life with my friend. In opinion, if we have a problem, find a suitable friends to talk to. For examples, when we have a problem related to our family, try to find someone that is also in our family. Maybe they will understand us the most. They can easily put themselves to our shoes, and help to solve it, or maybe help us to release a little bit. Next, if we have a problems related to a friends, we need to find a friends. It is because they share the same situation as us. But remember not to find the wrong one. Because they maybe will not solve our problem, but they will add on our problems. Doesn’t it is call a disaster?? Why we have to mess up ourselves? We already have a problem need to solve up. So, choose the right one. Again for me, we need to find a person that were in the same shoes with us. It will make it more easier.
